The Bitchy - Part 2 (The Ice Queen)

Okay so here's watsup. Guys need to learn a few things about me, because today I was very offended by someone's misunderstanding of the way I am. I was called an ice-queen. Hm. I find it to be very interesting as to how quick a guy jumps to insulting a girl when they are shut down. If you are a regular reader of mine, you must have by now learned that I am a very opinionated person. I do not fake how I feel about a situation or a person. When someone comes on strongly, in any way possible, it is my cue to back down as fast and hard as possible. If you are coming on strongly sexually, my take on it is that all you want from me is a sexual experience, and I'm not diggin that SORRY. If you come on too strongly emotionally, I see that as a point of weakness. Emotional attatchment is lovellyyy after a certain amount of time, but honestly think about it, that takes months to build up to. If you can fall for someone that fast, you can fall out from someone just as rapidly.
ANYWAYS. Sitting here, telling me that you don't like my attitude, and basically implying that I'm cold hearted, makes me lose respect for you. Because I get that way for only two reasons
One---> I'm most likely joking around; and it's obvious when I'm joking, I make it clear no questions asked, I have a wide sense of humor.
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Two---->Because I don't like you or find you to be a respectable person. I have plenty of friends and family and care for them with all my heart. I have no room for people I do not appreciate and will not act as if I do.

Also do not take my attitude as a joke when it is not meant to be. I have been mistaken for playing hard to get. I don't play games. People who play games are the kind of people who often need reassurance that the object of interest is going to stay interested. This is a huge sign of insecurity. Which is a bit of a turn off from time to time. I admit I tend to be insecure as well about things, but I don't test people's affection for me, I don't play emotional games. I'm too straight forward for that. I don't push people away to see if they will come back. If you push me away for that reason, I will go away, I won't fight to come back, sorry.

I apologize if my attitude towards you is offending, but I'm not fake. Most of you seem to mistake honesty for military type attitude. This is why I do not let people get to know me, because you all make it seem as if I am impossible to understand. Just because I'm not like every other easy to get boxed bimbo in the north shore area, does not mean I'm impossible; I'm simply different darling. "In order to be irreplaceable; one must be different." If you hate me for this, don't act like you like me, and don't insult me. I highly advise that you don't play games, with a girl who can play them better.